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13) “NINDA BARJIO” Criticism/backbiting is prohibited.
Wrongly condemning/criticising or back-biting others in their absence is called NINDA and is prohibited under this rule. This is a very bad habit and a sign of weakness & loose character. Generally people who don’t have courage and try to hide their own bad qualities and are jealous of others, they criticise others.
Such persons loose confidence/trust of their friends, customers, colleagues and family members because they understand very well that those persons may criticise them also. Person who criticizes gets negative emotions and attitude and then it becomes his habit and he can not see positive things in his life. He can not admire others for their good qualities hence can not adopt them. Persons with this bad habit become cause of breaking relations, quarrelling, loosing credibility & business etc. Guru Ji also said, “JAMPO VISHNU, NA NINDA KARNI” means, utilise your time by worshiping/reciting Vishnu instead of condemning/criticising others. “NINDA KARE GIVARA” ignorant person/boorish only criticize others. 14) “JHOOTH BARJIO” Untruthfulness & cheating is prohibited.
We should not tell lies & cheat for our selfishness or to harm others. Temporarily we may cheat others and get our work done by lying but truth can not be hidden for a long time and at the end we loose respect, confidence, trust and credibility. Prohibition of cheating in our relationship or dealing also comes under this rule. Some people tell lies to hide their weakness & wrong doings and they try to prove their smartness & cleverness but actually this is a weakness. SATYAMAVE JAYTE means Truth finally wins. Truth is final & sustainable. History is witness of this fact.
To hide one lie we tell many lies and try to manipulate and thus we waste our time, energy and peace of mind and get guilt developed in our mind. On the other hand if we are honest and tell truth then we win others confidence and sleep peacefully. No one is perfect, every one makes mistakes and we should accept our mistakes gracefully instead of hiding or telling lies. Once habit of lying is developed, we always make excuses and never accept our mistakes & bad habits and therefore can not improve ourselves. We should be truthful for our relations & dealings. Great persons always follow truth. Because of truthfulness world’s correct & effective administration is possible. Lie is considered crime and sin in all civilizations, religions & faiths. Guru ji said, “SACHA SU SANT BHAYO” true people becomes saint and I (saint) like people who are truthful. |
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